Several years ago, before it became fashionable or even practicable, to use a computer program to keep our
recipes at our fingertips, my sister and I decided we should put together a
family cookbook. From conception to birth it was a
labor of
love and long, long hours of sorting, typing, editing, editing, editing!
The idea was received with great anticipation and cooperation from all of our family, "Give us several of your favorite
recipes and we will be responsible for putting a cookbook together and see that everyone gets a copy."
Recipes began to pour in from all directions - North, South, East and West. Not that we are scattered in too many directions that far from Texas, but we did have
family members sending
recipes from as far away as North Carolina, Alabama, Oklahoma, and Missouri. Before we knew it we had a stack of handwritten and typed
recipes that seemed to spill over the top of the desk to the floor and several feet out into the room. My sister was responsible for calling or sending emails to verify ingredients or quantities or give someone a gentle reminder that, "Yes, we
do need
your recipes, Aunt Bea, what would our Family Cookbook be without
your favorite pecan pie?"
I busily began to enter the
recipes into my computer, using the only computer program that I was familiar with - WordPerfect. And I was
VERY loyal - adamantly proclaiming that WordPerfect was the best and only program worth using. Little did I know then how I would regret using WordPerfect for our cookbook.
I don't remember what year the idea of a
family cookbook actually took root, but it took several years and many inquiries from
family members as to its whereabouts to finally bear fruit - no pun intended! To begin with my sister and I both are perfectionists in certain areas of our lives. We couldn't seem to leave well enough alone as we edited, cut, rewrote, and edited some more. The
book would seemingly be coming along great and then someone would want to include another one of their
new recipes, or they
just found Aunt Nancy's peach cobbler
recipe written in
her own hand, and it just
had to be included. In retrospect we should have set a limit, but how do you tell Aunt Bea or Aunt Nancy why
her favorites were not in the final book?
With all the changes and our dedication to "perfection," so to speak, time was slipping away - further away from our promised delivery
date - every day. Then with my insistence on using WordPerfect instead of
Microsoft Word, disaster was lurking just around the corner.
My computer died. Now I think my
husband is a computer genius. He had suggested that I
backup my
work on CD. Thank goodness for that. But when we got a
new computer, guess what it didn't have. That's right - WordPerfect! I don't remember exactly
WHY I couldn't convert my WordPerfect files and have them formatted the way I wanted, but I eventually had to open them in
Microsoft Word and let the formatting do whatever it wanted to do, and then slowly and methodically redo the pages one at a time. I'm
sure there was something I wasn't doing properly, but I was very frazzled by that time, and I just did the only thing I knew how to do.
We finally began to see a light at the end of the tunnel. The
book was being printed at last - on my printer, of course. My
husband took reams of 24# bright white paper around the corner to Staples to be cut into 5 ½ x 8 ½ sheets. My printer was spitting the pages out faster than I could check to make sure the pages were backed up with the proper pages! You see, I insisted on a Table of Contents and an Index. What self-respecting cookbook editor wouldn't? It took nearly as long to print the thing as it did to get it prepared and ready to print. After we had collated the pages and printed a front and back cover we had the cover laminated and the cookbook spiral bound at a local print and copy shop.
My sister thought it would be a great idea to include a Memorial to those
family members who were no longer with us. Each of them had a
recipe that we included and the Memorial was placed on the same page with that recipe. We published additional
books three years later because there were
friends and other
family members who had not gotten a cookbook and asked us to
"please" print them one. By that time there were other beloved
family members who had gone
home to be with their Lord and Savior so their names and Memorials were included in the
new edition.
We included a list of contributors as well as the Memorials. Favorite sayings were scattered throughout the cookbook. They were taken from a
high school Autograph Book that had belonged to the Mother of a cousin in Oklahoma. Her
daughter graciously gave us permission to use the sayings. One of my favorites is "Don't
drive faster than your Angel can fly."
We have all enjoyed our
family cookbook and I can say with assurance it is one that nearly everyone uses more than any other. The cookbook is a source of enjoyment and comfort. Comfort when we see the names and
recipes of our loved ones who are no longer here and comfort in all the
"comfort foods" found on the book's pages.
My
children sometimes call and ask why a certain
recipe is not in "our cookbook". Then there is always that little nagging thought in my head that it would be nice to print a 2
nd family treasure but I think my
marriage of 40+ years might be strained a bit if I took on another task such as the last one.
I heartily recommend taking on a
project such as this with your
family members or friends. It will be one you will not soon forget. I still have my
backup copy on CD in
Microsoft Word and the WordPerfect copy is lurking around somewhere laughing at me!
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